Being the more traditional one, Ron wanted the wedding to be in Maragondon but I figured there's no decent hotel within the area. So we decided to go for either Tagaytay or Batangas. We searched high and low, spent Saturdays and Sundays, we were exhausted and I began considering St. Alphonsus at Magallanes where we usually hear mass. We considered Highlands-eks, everyone got married there. Punta Fuego-eks, needs endorsement for every 20 guests. Hamilo Coast- eks reception still looks like ballroom inside a hotel.
And then we found St. Benedict.
The solemnity in the area is solid. It really is a Benedictine community. I am reminded of our school, San Beda that taught us one good virtue we apply in life: "Ora et Labora". Prayer and Work.
Indeed, it's a deafening YES for St. Benedict Church at Ayala Westgrove, Silang Cavite.
We wanted to reserve right away, but their policy is "interview first before reserve".
We were scheduled three weeks after, we couldn't wait.
Finally, its 29 February 2012, 8am. We were interviewed by Father Isagani Avinante and we learned soooo many things. He made us comprehend fully what marriage is all about. His teachings hit right to the core.
I wish I could share EVERYTHING that he said without divulging what otherwise should be personal and confidential to couples. At least, I think it is my responsibility to let everyone know this one important logic that he said:
"Do not associate love with emotions, love is not a feeling.
Love is a decision, love is a commitment.
So that someday when you're gray and old
and you might not feel anything for the other,
love will make you stay."
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